Showing posts with label Kuwait. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Kuwait. Show all posts

Thursday, 8 December 2011

Kuwaiti women who studied abroad adjust to life at home

Fatimah al-Qattan, Director of Public Relations in an international company, said she was forced to study abroad because the University of Kuwait did not offer Business Administration as a scientific major. Despite her family's initial concern about her staying alone for a long period of time abroad, they eventually agreed she should go.

"And this was a great opportunity to rely on myself, especially since I studied in the United States and not in one of the Arab countries, which in the end maintains the same framework of Arab culture, customs and traditions," she said.

But her return to Kuwait was not as easy as she anticipated.

"When I came back to Kuwait, I thought I was going to work in the major I specialised in," she said. "Unfortunately, I did not find something that suits me and was in line with what I studied, which drove me to go back to school in Kuwait to complete my studies and reach the position and work that I want."

Al-Qattan is one of many young Kuwaiti women attempting to work in a field not normally open to women.

Al-Ma'rifah magazine published a study earlier this year prepared by global consulting firm Tony Blair Associates, Kuwait Vision 2030, that said the educational system is incapable of preparing the workforce to cope with the challenges of the future.

The Director of Public Relations and Information at the Ministry of Higher Education in Kuwait, Ali al-Halabi, told al-Shorfa the ministry makes opportunities available for young men and women to study abroad regardless of gender.

"The Ministry is providing the opportunity to both males and females to submit applications to complete their education abroad after finishing high school," al-Halabi said.

He said custom, however, including parents' fear of their daughters travelling abroad, keeps the ratio of men to women studying abroad unequal.

"The selection is not made according to sex at all, but according to ratios and school grades, given the fact that the proportion of males normally exceeds that of females, due to the customs and traditions that govern society and make some parents fearful of their daughters travelling abroad by themselves, which leads to the ratio of males reaching 65% and females 35%," he said.

Nonetheless, the decision to leave Kuwait to study constitutes a challenge, especially once young women return to Kuwait and reintegrate into society.

Dalal Ibrahim, an architect, said she has faced great difficulty since returning to Kuwait.

Ibrahim grew up in London, and then moved to live with her family in Kuwait when she was 10 years old. When she finished her high school education, she went to study at the American University in Sharjah.

"My mother objected due to concern that often haunts mothers with regards to their children, especially the girls, but my father was supporting me because he was aware of the extent of suffering that I had been through for the duration of my high school studies because I did not adapt to life and dealing with people in Kuwait," she said.

After finishing her university studies, Ibrahim strived to stay out of Kuwait as long as possible.

"I have already travelled to the United States for six months, which paved the way for me to work in a very prestigious company in Kuwait where I am treated like a foreigner," she said.

Ilham al-Qattan, Social and Psychological Development Advisor, said readjusting to life in Kuwait is more difficult for girls who grew up abroad than it is for girls who only left the country for their studies.

Although many girls are affected by the short years of life away from home, she said it "becomes easier for them to adapt when they return to their original society, with some exceptions".

But the situation of those who grew up abroad is very difficult, because many of the cases that she has dealt with show a clear rejection to adapting with the Kuwaiti society as a result of the customs they acquired in the West, al-Qattan said.

Saturday, 19 November 2011

Kuwaiti girls use mobile phone while driving

More women use mobile phones while driving than men, a local study conducted on motorists’ use of mobile phones revealed. The study showed that 62.5 percent of women talk over mobile phones or send text messages while at the helm of their vehicles compared to 37.5 men.

This study was conducted by a research team from the Kuwait Society for Traffic Safety last month. More than 100,000 vehicle users were surveyed in this study, in which important traffic issues considered the root cause of car accidents were also identified.

Both men and women, citizens and expatriates, drove 100,000 cars in a month across different areas in Kuwait regardless of the traffic situation. According to the study, women aged between 18 and 35 used mobile phones the most while driving, especially sending text messages or chatting through the BlackBerry, IPhone.

I drive a lot and I have noticed that most women use mobile phones during driving. Women glued to their phones concentrate less on driving which leads to car accidents. I don’t use the phone while driving, though there are times when I use the device hands free. I witnessed an accident that was caused by a woman spoke over phone and failed to concentrate. She wanted to take an exit road from the Fifth Ring Road while she was in the left lane. The car hit her vehicle, It’s really dangerous,” Abdulridha,
a 50-year- old citizen told the Kuwait Times.

Women do not fully agree with the study’s findings. “I think that this percentage is fabricated because I think most people use mobile phones while driving. I see men and women using the phone while driving. I do use the phone while driving but when I do, I always try to use the device hands free. I try to take only really important calls. I know I shouldn’t be doing it but I am trying to stop. It’s just so hard,” stated Linda a 27-year- old Canadian.

Fatma, a 29-year- old Kuwaiti believes that the statistics released are not accurate. “I agree that many people in Kuwait use mobile phones while driving. I see that men have this bad habit more so than women. My brother met with an accident because he used the phone while driving. I don’t use the mobile phone when I drive. Everything has it’s time. So I wait till I reach the place and then call back . If it is really urgent , I stop by the side of the road and make my call,” she noted.

For many the act of sending text messages while driving is more dangerous, “I never send text message while driving. Here, you not only reduce concentration, you deviate your attention from the road to look at the screen of your mobile phone, and accidents usually happen within seconds. I always see women and men using mobile phones while driving. They may harm the innocent as well,” stressed Noof, a 24-year- old woman.

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